Finally something positive.
Following my previous blog it’s clear I am in a pretty poor state. Purely existing instead of living and get on in life. I summoned the effort (courage?) to try and improve things. It was prompted by listening to a podcast about the life of Dean Windass on talksport. He has always been a player that splits opinion due to his way if playing the game. I played with Dean for 18 months and I can honestly say I found him to be great to be around. Arguably one of the best players I have played with as well, any ball at him or within 2 yard and his touch was superb. Also jumped and timed heading the ball, so well he was brilliant to have up top. It has been well documented about Dean attempting to take his life and his interview discussed him visiting The Sporting Chance Clinic and how it helped him immensely. I thought about contacting the clinic for a couple of days and I did via email. I was put in contact with someone who explained that I wasn’t eligible for the program they run as its more suited to addiction than mental health problems. They did however put me in touch with a private psycho therapist and explained to me that the PFA will cover any costs as a life long member. I genuinely felt that the person cared about helping me and that meant a lot as support feels so far away at times.
Having tried counselling and not enjoyed it, I am hoping this experience is better suited for me. Frankly I will try anything at the moment to feel better. I am trying to be positive and go into this with an open mind. With a bit of luck I can get some tools to help me deal with life’s up and down in a more balanced way. I am still feeling deeply unwell and each day is a struggle but I feel that taking this step, no matter how small it may seem should be deemed as a positive. I have other issues I really need to address as they are eating me up inside but I’m playing the long game so to speak. My biggest fear is hitting a low period that takes away all rational thought and imam unable to stop myself making the wrong decision. I can only deal with that as it occurs though.
Thanks for reading.